Having your guest names printed directly onto the invitation will certainly clear up any confusion as to who is invited to your wedding. However if you feel it is not necessary to personalise each invitation, here's the other way to avoid awkward situations of people attending with an uninvited guest.
You can simply address the envelope with the names of your intended guests and hope that common sense is prevalent. Most times it gets the message across and if your guests are unsure they will contact you. Some couples add text such as "strictly invites only" or "no kids" to the RSVP. If you are inviting a guest that may bring a partner but you're unsure of their name, you can add "and guest" (although I personally think it's nicer to find out their name - especially if they are coming to your wedding!)
We provide the service of personalising your invitations with guest names so just let us know in the consultation if this is something you are after.
Great news for all our customers in the U.S!
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Why we are fans of Prints of Love:
1. They don't require you to have a huge amount to print. #winning
2. They have a selection of linen, matte and gloss cardstock perfect for invitations or event stationery.
3. You can print your posters and wall art with them as well.
4. Turn over time of 2 business days with free 2-3 day shipping anywhere in the U.S.
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We believe that working with Prints of Love will make your DIY stationery experience a whole lot easier as you will have both a design and print team for support! If you use Prints of Love and require any technical changes to your files, we will happily fix them for you for free.
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Happy designing and printing!
I found this gem of an infographic by City Print Design to visually depict paper sizes.
Here's a breakdown of the usual paper sizes we use for our stationery:
A5 + A6 for the invitations (to fit C5 + C6 envelopes respectively)
A0 + A1 for welcome + seating signage
A3 + A4 for smaller event signage and prints
DL for menus and invitations
Business card size for place cards (or close to)
Your standard home printer can print anything up to A4 size, unless of course you are lucky enough to have a special printer that goes up to A3 and do other fancy things.
We can always design to your specifications so just let us know what sizes you want during consultation.
Print Sizes for Framing
Here's a not-as-visually-pleasing representation of frame sizes that I created. Sometimes frames will have an extra mounting card so just keep in mind that the print size you require may not be the same as the frame size. There are frames available for standard A3 and A4 sizes as well.
The most common question I get asked about my digital printable designs is where to take the files for printing. There are a few options for printing depending on your budget. So here is my list of possible options. (Please note this is Melbourne and Australia specific so international customers please check with your local print shops and retail stores.)
1. Leave it to the pros
For those that want to outsource their invitations and signages to a printing company, there are a lot of online printing services where you can upload your files and they will take care of the rest. I highly recommend it if you want your invitations on extra thick or luxurious specialty paper and you'll need it for poster printing (anything bigger than A3). The great thing about having your invitations professionally printed is that it delivers immaculate results and you have almost no restrictions on paper stock or finishes. It also saves you time on cutting out your invitations. (If you place a printable order with me, I am happy to design your file to the necessary specifications of your chosen printer for free).
These are my recommended printers:
Officeworks Print and Copy now offer invitation printing services. They have a small range of specialty paper stock you can choose from for an affordable price. Although the choice of paper stock is limited, it is enough to make your invitation look and feel beautiful. You can upload your design onto their website and pick it up at your local store or get it delivered to your door.
3. Print at home
If you are on a tight budget and not too fussed about the print quality, your home printer can do a decent job. However keep in mind that home printer ink is quite expensive and you may have ink leakages or unexpected technical problems. I would only recommend this option if you're printing items such as Save the Dates or party invitations on lightweight paper i.e. not thick cardstock.
My printer at home is an Epson XP-700 which I use to print out my designs as a sample to see what they look like. The other day I needed to print just one page in black and white but I had run out of black ink and had to buy the whole set of 5 colour cartridges because my printer wouldn't work without all of them. So that ended up costing me over $120 in printer ink.
Having said that, I have used my printer to print items on beautiful textured stock such as 300gsm Wild (35% cotton) card from Paperpoint (as pictured above) and they turned out amazing. My printer has a rear feeder which allows for heavier cardstock to be used so check if yours is capable of printing on card before purchasing any paper.
4. Get creative
Just because you are on a budget doesn't mean your stationery can't have the wow factor. If you plan on printing your invites at home, you have the freedom to get creative and add the handmade element to your invitations! You can make it as unique as you like!
If you have any questions about printing please don't hesitate to get in contact!
The wishing well is one of those topics that always comes up in my consultations with my clients. I know there are couples that feel very uncomfortable asking their guests for money instead of presents. The act of giving and receiving money is still taboo in some respects mainly because we associate this with charity funds. However couples moving in together before marriage is becoming very popular in our modern world and add in the fact that renovating and styling your own place is now an exciting activity (i.e. The Block style) there really is no need for unnecessary household gifts anymore.
While the main point of having a wedding is to celebrate and share your marriage with your loved ones, everyone knows that an awesome party costs money. Unless you live a Gatsby life, weddings usually mean credit card debt and perhaps even loans. Hence having a budget and spending within your means. Even though most wishing well poems will have something along the lines of "your presence is present enough" we all know that at the end of the day, if you host a wedding celebration you can expect that your guests will bring something with them whether it's a present or money in a card. This is just wedding etiquette passed on from generations.
In my opinion the best way to work out this dilemma is to honestly figure out what you would like to receive on your wedding day. Unless you imply a very strict no presents rule, it's better to have your guests give you something you would want and use rather than a shed full of useless items that you will probably re-gift later on. If you prefer to have cash over anything else then by all means use a wishing well. The fact is that your guests are probably quite close to you and will understand your request. This will also free up their time of looking for a gift for you.
If having a wishing well is not your thing (and that's completely fine) I think a gift registry is a great option where you can choose what items you would like and control how much your guests spend. Most department stores and specialty stores have gift registries so you can choose to your heart's desire. It's sort of a win-win situation for everyone.
Another option is going digital through websites that offer funds like Envelope Registry. It takes the awkwardness out of asking for money and is a great concept!
In conclusion I don't think the wishing well is a terrible thing. It saves your guests a lot of time and wasted money. You can be creative with the text on the wishing well making it a fun thing rather than an awkward request!
There are a few ways to tackle this depending on how you would like to address it.
1. Being subtle and addressing the envelope to the adult recipients only.
This method isn't foolproof though, as some guests may not get the hint that children are not invited.
2. Being blunt and straightforward.
This will definitely get the message across but you may have to be cautious when dealing with sensitive guests.
"Sorry, no kids."
"Please note that this is an adults only wedding and reception."
3. Asking in a polite manner to respect your wishes.
"We respectfully request no children under 16 at the reception."
"As we would like to keep this wedding adults only, we kindly request no children be brought to the reception."
What if you are having children from immediate families attend?
"While we would love to have everyone attend our wedding, unfortunately we can only accommodate guests who were named on the invitation."